I waited patiently for the LORD; he inclined to me and heard my cry. He drew me up from the desolate pit, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure. He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the LORD. Psalm 40:1-3
According to a song of the season, this is the “most wonderful time of the year”; yet for many it is filled with both joy and sadness. The Christmas season brings up memories of years past and long-gone family members. The hustle and bustle can become a burden rather than a fun adventure. Planning, prepping, baking, shopping and wrapping sometimes becomes a chore and then some crooner is telling you to “be of good cheer”. Yet maybe you are not. Maybe in the midst of the joy and fun, you find yourself sad.
That is okay.
It is okay to feel the holiday sadness, the loss, even feeling alone while surrounded by many. It is okay to sometimes not feel the “holly jolly”. And it is okay to take this to God, for he will hear your cry.
Many churches have a “Blue Christmas” or “Longest Night” service. If you can, take advantage of one. Perhaps you have a favorite holiday tradition that brings you meaning, if so, allow it to comfort you. Or maybe you need a little quiet place, away from the noise, the lights, even the excitement. Find that place, listen to your needs, trust in your God for he will put a new song in your mouth.
Peace,
Pastor Bill